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Journeys of Becoming...

The 5 Hidden Traps Scholarly Mamas Fall Into & How to Spot Them

February 3, 2025 · Love, Family & Lifestyle, Personal Growth & Wellness, PhD & Beyond

Learn how to identify and manage the five hidden traps that keep Scholarly MamasĀ® from achieving their life and academic goals.

From Overwhelmed to Award-Winning: How I Finished My PhD Well

February 2, 2025 · PhD & Beyond

Discover how, as a Mama of three, I transformed my PhD journey from overwhelming struggle to award-winning success. Learn practical strategies for finishing your PhD well while maintaining a work-life blend.

Why Scholarly Mamas Don’t Need More Productivity Hacks (+ What They Need Instead)

January 20, 2025 · Personal Growth & Wellness, PhD & Beyond

Discover why the latest productivity hacks fall short for mothers pursuing PhDs, and learn the essential elements they truly need for success: redefining progress, embracing margin work, practicing radical self-compassion, and building strategic support systems.

From Stuck and Stressed To Submitted: How I Finished My PhD Thesis As a Mama of 3

January 13, 2025 · PhD & Beyond

Discover how I went from nearly quitting to successfully submitted PhD thesis in 16 months. Learn practical strategies for combining motherhood and doctoral studies while maintaining a purposeful work-life blend. This is my story about how I finished my PhD thesis as a Mama of 3.

Making Space for Progress: The Amazing Power of Focused Effort

January 8, 2025 · PhD & Beyond

Discover how focused effort can transform your PhD journey while juggling motherhood. Learn practical strategies for creating distraction-free workspaces and maximising productivity in limited time blocks, helping you achieve your academic goals without sacrificing family time.

Writing Your PhD Thesis: Why Consistency Matters More Than Speed

December 30, 2024 · PhD & Beyond

Learn effective strategies for writing your PhD thesis as a Scholarly MamaĀ®. Discover how consistent progress beats rapid writing, with practical tips for juggling academic and family life.

What To Do When Your Best Doesn’t Feel Good Enough

December 30, 2024 · Personal Growth & Wellness, PhD & Beyond

Struggling with feeling good enough in academia? Learn how to overcome self-doubt and transform academic setbacks into growth opportunities while juggling motherhood and scholarly pursuits.

7 Surprising Things That Made My Year in 2024

December 30, 2024 · Love, Family & Lifestyle, Personal Growth & Wellness, PhD & Beyond

Discover the 7 meaningful things that made my year in 2024, from celebrating academic milestones to finding work-life harmony. This personal reflection shows how simple moments can create an extraordinary year.

How To Reach Your Full Potential in Scholarly Motherhood

December 28, 2024 · Personal Growth & Wellness

Discover proven strategies to reach your potential in academic pursuits while cherishing motherhood. Learn how to juggle scholarly ambitions with family life through purposeful success and intentional growth.

My PhD Graduation: The Ultimate Finale To A Remarkable Journey

December 27, 2024 · PhD & Beyond

My PhD Graduation: The Ultimate Finale To A Remarkable Journey by Mrs Mummy PhD

Follow my emotional PhD graduation journey from preparation to ceremony and celebration. Get practical tips and insights about what to expect at your PhD graduation, plus heartfelt reflections on this major academic milestone

Why It’s Time to Stop Navigating PhD Motherhood Alone

December 26, 2024 · PhD & Beyond

Discover essential strategies for navigating PhD Motherhood successfully through meaningful connections. Learn why a supportive community is crucial for thriving in your academic journey while also enjoying family life.

All I Want for Christmas Is…

December 25, 2024 · Love, Family & Lifestyle

Discover why all I want for Christmas is not more academic success. Get thought-provoking insights on how to juggle your PhD journey with family life during the holidays and beyond from a purposeful Scholarly MamaĀ®.

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Hey Mama! I'm Dr Michelle Gibbs and this little corner of the internet exists to help ambitious women like you, achieve your lofty goals without sacrificing what matters most. If you're juggling a family, career, scholarly journey and everything else in-between, then this space is for you! It's time to flourish on purpose, with less hustle and more harmony. So Mama, are you in? Fabulous! Let's begin. These are our journeys of becoming :-)

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šŸ‚A seasonal reminderšŸ‘‡šŸ½ ⁠ Watching the leaves fall šŸ‚A seasonal reminderšŸ‘‡šŸ½
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Watching the leaves fall this autumn reminds me that even the trees release what no longer serves them. They don’t cling. They don’t question their worth. They simply trust the process that is their becoming.
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And maybe you’re in a season that feels a lot like falling… or even failing… The overwhelm. The high expectations. The creeping deadlines. The meetings, events, bookings, invites and appointments. The exhaustion. The mental load required to keep it all together. The quiet internal wondering that questions whether you’re still on the right path and making the right calls. All the things that come with juggling both academic work and motherhood…
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But from one Scholarly Mama to another…

I’ve realised that sometimes those internal rumblings are the beginnings of your growth to become the woman this season is calling you to be…. a subtle sign to realign, to shake things up a bit, to do things a little differently this/next time.
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Just like the trees, you’re allowed to let go of what no longer serves…
To release.
To rest.
To root deeper, so you can rise stronger.
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Your becoming begins with a simple decision today… not tomorrow, not on 1st January 2026, not when you achieve this or that, not when someone else gives you the permission…. But right here, right now… in the ā€œin-betweenā€, in the messy middle.

The decision to choose purpose, presence and peace. The decision to give yourself grace for the season you’re in and trust that none of your growth is wasted. 
ā€˜Tis the season for alignment…

ā“What shift (big or small) is on the horizon for you? (Just know that I’m rooting for your joy & success!)
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Mama, these are our journeys of becoming šŸ¦‹

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For the ambitious @scholarlymamas blending marriag For the ambitious @scholarlymamas blending marriage, motherhood, and a research career… I see you.

Because juggling all of this is its own kind of thesis, and busyness is not a badge of honour.

These are the gentle reminders I wish I had on the days I felt stretched thin:

You’re allowed to slow down.
You’re allowed to breathe.
You’re allowed to be brilliant and tender at the same time.
Your journey might look different, but it’s no less meaningful.
Your pace is worthy. And so are you...

These are your journeys of becoming šŸ¦‹
When I travelled recently for work—the solo suitca When I travelled recently for work—the solo suitcase, quiet hotel room, no mouths to feed, no one to get ready for bed… sounds like bliss (iykyk!), and yet my heart remained at home.

But instead of allowing the guilt to take over, I chose harmony:
- FaceTime during dinner
- Silly faces on screen
- FaceTime family worship
- Bedtime with the kids
- Uninterrupted chilled convos with my husband
- Letting connection travel with me.

Not perfectly. Not performatively. Just intentionally.

Then, I switched off completely and embraced the R&R!

For the @scholarlymamas navigating ambition + motherhood:

You don’t have to split yourself in half to make both matter.

You get to choose the personal mini-moves that keep you grounded, connected, and human.

Self-compassion is the bridge. Harmony is the goal.

Burnout doesn’t get to be the price of your dreams.

These are your journeys of becoming šŸ¦‹

#scholarlymama #workingmomwisdom #worklifeharmony #antiburnout #selfcompassionjourney #mrsmummyphd #journeysofbecoming #workingmama #minimoves
It’s the becoming, the growth, the evolutionā€¦šŸ‘‡šŸ½ T It’s the becoming, the growth, the evolutionā€¦šŸ‘‡šŸ½

This kind of freedom is priceless✨

To know oneself, to know one’s worth, to be able to embody grit & grace without the grind, to have clarity of purpose, to transform one’s PhD Motherhood journey it into something incredibly purposeful and beautiful… they offer the kind of joy that no one can take away.

So the next time you feel like you can’t do this without unpardonable sacrifice or without losing yourself in the process, remember that you can still pause to BE and success can still be yours regardless of the many other hats your wear.

Mama, these are our journeys of becoming šŸ¦‹
Growing up on a tiny Caribbean island, I had big d Growing up on a tiny Caribbean island, I had big dreams as a little girl, but there were no guarantees because options were limited.

Fast forward several decades and that little girl moved countries twice, married her high-school sweetheart, became an RD with 5 degrees, including her PhD, and had 3 amazing sons (+2 angel babies).

But it wasn’t all a walk in the park…

My PhD was the hardest thing I’d ever done, especially as wife and mother. Honestly, there were many moments I wanted to give up — nights when the weight of it all felt heavy, and the finish line felt out of reach. I often questioned if I could really see it through…

But then… there was him… My husband, my anchor, my ride or die guy — the quiet strength who held me when I wanted to let go. When I doubted myself, he reminded me who I was. He carried what I couldn’t, so I could keep pursuing my career dreams.

And then there were our 3 boys — their laughter, their little voices, reminding me why I started in the first place. They were my reason… my strength… my heartbeat through it all.

There were tears, prayers, and moments of doubt — but love kept me steady, faith kept me grounded, and family gave me purpose. I realised that love and ambition aren’t opposite ends of the spectrum, but they’re threads that can weave together into something extraordinary.

Because at the end of the day…
what is success if you have no one to share it with?

That PhD began as my dream — but it became our journey. Built on faith, held by love, and made real by the people who never let me forget why I began. 

So if I could go back to childhood me, I’d let that little island girl know that though it wouldn’t be easy, her dreams were šŸ’Æpossible. I’d let her know that these will be her journeys of becoming šŸ¦‹

Tag all the @scholarlymamas who need to know that their dreams are possible too!

#scholarlymama #mrsmummyphd #journeysofbecoming #phd #scholarlymamas #phdmama #purposefulsuccess
If you’re in the throes of PhD Motherhood, this me If you’re in the throes of PhD Motherhood, this message is for you! 

Keep going Mama, cheering you on all the way to Dr [you]!

Secret to success: being intentional about your Scholarly Mama life!

Sometimes being intentional looks like taking breaks for rest, recovery and recharge. Sometimes it looks like embracing the new and shelving what isn’t working for you any longer. Sometimes it’s embracing the stillness of deep work or quiet reflection. 

Here are three questions to ask yourself when you’re in the trenches of the juggle struggle:

1.	What does success look like for me in this season, and am I giving myself permission to embrace it?

2.	What can I release — habits, expectations, or pressures — that no longer serve the woman I’m becoming?

3.	Where can I create small pockets of stillness to reconnect with my purpose and joy?

Which of these questions resonates with you most right now? 

Drop your thoughts in the comments — and tag another Scholarly Mama who needs to hear this today.

These are our journeys of becoming šŸ¦‹
"I met myself..." These were Dr Noni's words afte "I met myself..."

These were Dr Noni's words after an 8+ year PhD journey—one that led her from rejection and redirection to unexpected transformation.

This latest episode (Episode #121) is a powerful reminder that the academic path isn’t just about degrees or titles—it's a journey back to oneself.

If you’ve ever felt like your story doesn’t ā€œfitā€ the traditional academic mold, this one is for you.

Remember, these are our journeys of becoming šŸ¦‹

#SelfDiscovery #PhDMotherhood #ScholarlyMama
What happens when your dream of academia meets the What happens when your dream of academia meets the reality of motherhood—and somehow, both lead you back to yourself?

Tune into my guest episode this week with a Zimbabwean-born academic, Mama, and creator who’s walked an extraordinary path: from being rejected by master’s programmes to earning two undergraduate degrees, securing a prestigious scholarship, and finally finishing her PhD after 8+ years—all while raising her daughter.

We get into the hidden struggles of finishing a PhD as a Mama, and how the long academic journey became, more than anything, a journey back to self.

If you’ve ever felt lost in your research, torn between identities, or like you’re carrying too much alone—tune into an extordinary story of a Scholarly Mama’s journey.

Tune in now wherever you get your podcasts, and don’t forget to subscribe, share, and tag a fellow #scholarlymama who needs to hear this.

Remember Mama, these are your journeys of becoming šŸ¦‹

#PhDMotherhood #WomenInAcademia #SelfDiscovery #PhDJourney #MamaAndScholar #PhDLife #SelfDiscovery #PhDLife #BlackWomenInAcademia #PodcastForMoms #MotherhoodUnfiltered #ScholarlyMama #PhDRealTalk
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