• Home
  • About
  • Get Started
    • Take The Scholarly Mama® Quiz
    • Join Scholarly Mamas®
  • Podcast
  • Blog
    • Personal Growth & Wellness
    • Love, Family & Lifestyle
    • PhD & Beyond
  • Shop

Mrs Mummy PhD

Journeys of Becoming...

5 Best-Kept Secrets For Thriving In Marriage As A Black Couple

February 4, 2022 · Love, Family & Lifestyle

As Scholarly Mamas®, we wear many hats. We are mothers and scholars but many of us are also navigating marriage/relationships outside of all of that. Black couples, in particular, face many challenges in their journeys of love and marriage. With so many marriages ending prematurely in divorce, we wanted to share our 5 best-kept secrets for thriving in marriage as a millennial black couple. We believe that if you get the foundations of marriage right, everything else will fall into place. If you want the inside scoop on making your marriage work, this post is for you!

Growth and Transition: Life-Changing Inspiration From The Garden

January 15, 2022 · Personal Growth & Wellness

Updated 11.6.23: In a previous blog post, I shared my two focus words for the new year 2022. At the time, those two words were ‘growth and transition’. It’s funny how those two words are still so relevant today. Perhaps…

Read More

Hello, New Year 2022! I’ve Got These 2 Words For You

January 1, 2022 · Personal Growth & Wellness

2021 was an interesting journey. So with this in mind, I have decided to come up with two words for the New Year 2022, that will thematise my focus for this year and guide my decision-making in this new chapter of my life. Read this blog post to find out more!

A Purposeful Scholarly Mama Life: The Remarkable Power Of Intention

October 1, 2021 · Personal Growth & Wellness

If there is one very important thing that I previously underestimated on my journeys of becoming my whole self, it’s the remarkable power of intention. Read this post to find out how you can intentionally pursue a Scholarly Mama life of purpose.

Back-to-School 2021: A New Welcome Woe Dichotomy

September 4, 2021 · Love, Family & Lifestyle

Back to school 2021 is finally upon us, and it presents a new and interesting dichotomy. Is it a time for celebration or trepidation? Here are 8 reasons why back to school 2021 could be either or both for PhD Mamas.

How to Navigate the Juggle Struggle as a Scholarly Mama: 10 Essential Mindset Shifts

July 25, 2021 · Personal Growth & Wellness, PhD & Beyond

How to Find Balance and Perspective As a PhD Mama: 10 Essential Mindset Shifts | Mrs Mummy PhD - Featured Image

As someone who has had all my kids in academia, I understand the need to navigate the juggle struggle purposefully. In this post, I wanted to share 10 essential mindset shifts that have helped me navigate my marriage, motherhood, and PhD journeys, plus everything else in between.

  • ← Previous
  • 1
  • …
  • 8
  • 9
  • 10
  • 11
  • 12
  • Next →

Meet Mrs Mummy PhD®

Hey! I'm Dr Michelle Gibbs and this little corner of the internet exists to help Scholarly Mamas® like you, achieve your life and academic goals without sacrificing what matters most. If you're like me, and juggling love, motherhood, career, academia and everything else in-between, then it's time to say 'yes' to savouring the moments that truly matter, while doing what sets our hearts on fire! So Mama, are you in? Fabulous! These are our journeys of becoming :-)

Follow Me

Categories

  • Love, Family & Lifestyle
  • Personal Growth & Wellness
  • PhD & Beyond

Search

Reader Favourites

What’s Holding You Back from Starting Your Journey of Becoming?

Marriage, Motherhood & A PhD: Why I Started the Mrs Mummy PhD Blog

How to Find Balance and Perspective As a PhD Mama: 10 Essential Mindset Shifts | Mrs Mummy PhD - Featured Image

How to Navigate the Juggle Struggle as a Scholarly Mama: 10 Essential Mindset Shifts

Connect

Search

Browse

  • Home
  • About
  • Get Started
    • Take The Scholarly Mama® Quiz
    • Join Scholarly Mamas®
  • Podcast
  • Blog
    • Personal Growth & Wellness
    • Love, Family & Lifestyle
    • PhD & Beyond
  • Shop

The Fine Print

  • Terms & Conditions
  • Disclaimers
  • Privacy Policy
  • Cookie Policy
  • Copyright Notice

Follow me on Instagram!

…to be grateful for today and fully present in t …to be grateful for today and fully present in the here and now 🙌🏽

These are our journeys of becoming 🦋

#scholarlymama #journeysofbecoming #scholarlymamas #gratitude #mrsmummyphd #thankful #present #feelinggreatful
I chose the extraordinary👇🏽 These are my jo I chose the extraordinary👇🏽

These are my journeys of becoming 🦋

Follow @mrsmummyphd and @scholarlymamas for more inspirational content about navigating PhD Motherhood.

#scholarlymama #mrsmummyphd #journeysofbecoming #phd #scholarlymamas #purposefulsuccess #extraordinary
Here’s why…👇🏽 These are the moments tha Here’s why…👇🏽

These are the moments that matter. When the dust settles, these are the ones you’ll remember for a lifetime 🦋

A slow and soul-filling retreat in the countryside—where the mornings were quietly unhurried, reminded me of the importance of slowing right down and resting without guilt. 

Each morning, we watched the sunrise from our cosy little cabin, wearing our pyjamas and wrapped in warm blankets as the warmth of the sun slowly melted away the overnight frost on the open field before our eyes. 

Then later, what a joy watching the boys run freely under the open skies... Taking deep breaths and truly savouring… 

It’s these simple pauses, these tucked-away moments with our people, that become the memories we carry.

They say we don’t remember days, we remember moments—and this one’s etched in my heart. These are the lived experiences that give meaning to the days in our years. 

A gentle reminder to take the break, be fully there, and let the little things become the big memories. 

You’re more than your PhD.

These are your journeys of becoming 🦋

#scholarlymama #mrsmummyphd #journeysofbecoming #phd #slowdown #takeabreak #familytime
What if the best memories aren’t made in the big What if the best memories aren’t made in the big moments—but in the quiet, unhurried pauses in between? 

Recently got back from the sweetest little countryside retreat—where time slowed down, and joy came in the form of two wheels, hours of exploration, and lots of fun and laughter.

On one of the days, we rented bikes and rode through open fields, parks and paths for a good few hours—no rush, no screens, just us. 

These are the breaks that fill your soul, the kind that remind you why slowing down is everything…

Here’s to family time, fresh air, and the beauty of truly living and creating magical memories together…

These are our journeys of becoming 🦋

#familyretreat #slowmoments #countrysidejoy #makingmemories #familytime #slowdown
Still wouldn’t trade this kind of love for the w Still wouldn’t trade this kind of love for the world…

Original reel by @justjeanette_

I’m deep in the feels too! ❤️❤️❤️

These are our journeys of becoming 🦋

#scholarlymama #mamaofthree #mumof3 #mumofboys #boymama #journeysofbecoming #motherhood
If only he knew the significance of that little ha If only he knew the significance of that little handmade paper cap he’s wearing that his big bother made…

A lot can change in just a few years! 
 
These are our journeys of becoming 🦋

#scholarlymama #mrsmummyphd #journeysofbecoming #phd #scholarlymamas #gradschool #phdmama #purposefulsuccess
It’s the little moments that matter for me… F It’s the little moments that matter for me…

Follow @mrsmummyphd for more and join us @scholarlymamas 

These are our journeys of becoming 🦋

#mrsmummyphd #scholarlymama #journeysofbecoming #phd #scholarlymamas #gradschool
Breaking barriers, shattering glass but…👇🏽 Breaking barriers, shattering glass but…👇🏽

…with purpose, because life is too short! 

One thing I wish I’d known when I embarked on this journey is that it’s okay if it looked different for me as a Mama, both during and after my PhD. 

It’s amazing how many people look back on their PhD journeys with regret. I’m grateful that hasn’t been my experience…

My PhD journey absolutely looked different as a Mama who began with one child and had two more along the way… and you know what?…it didn’t make my journey any less worthy or impactful. Yes, I chose to prioritise what mattered to me without apology because I refused to put family life on hold or neglect my sense of self.

And now that I’m in that post-PhD Dr era, I’m still living my best life as a wife, Mama and just being human, with an extra ‘Dr’ title in the mix. I’ve realised that my path may still look different from others as I enjoy building my career outside of academia but the impact is no less powerful or the experience any less valid.

But I want to be honest with you Mama, I haven’t arrived at this place without navigating and overcoming many feelings of guilt and inadequacy which often came from comparing myself to others who didn’t have half of the responsibilities I did.

So what did I learn? I learned to love my Scholarly Mama life with all its quirks, nuances and uniqueness. And I still own this identity as my journey continues to evolve into the butterfly it was always destined to be. 

What I’ve learned is this: You have one life, you can’t afford to spend it all in pursuit. Yes, go after your ambitious goals but remember to pause to enjoy the little moments this life offers you as a Mama too, like those morning cuddles and bedtime stories. 

Mama, believe me, your future ‘Dr’ self will thank you for it when you can wake up everyday without guilt and regret. Stop apologising for being the Scholarly Mama you are, stay purposeful… your success chapter awaits :-)

So here’s to consistent progress toward our goals without sacrificing what matters.

These are our journeys of becoming 🦋

#scholarlymama #mrsmummyphd #journeysofbecoming #scholarlymamas #gradschool #purposefulsuccess #phdjourney
Follow on Instagram

Copyright © 2025 Mrs Mummy PhD · Theme by 17th Avenue